I am in a situation where I am the breadwinner but my husband won't apply for any job just 1 or 2 particular ones. Now my car is on the fritz over $3000.00 worth of repairs that cannot be paid. So I have to live with it. Going back home to NJ where there are no jobs is not an option for me though that is where most of my/husband family live. Though I have this feeling of expectation that something is going to happen. I don't know if that is a good/bad thing. Usually, the feeling is an oh no but still it is a feeling. It isn't easy but what are the other choices do you have? It all points to MONEY. If you don't have it you can't do anything about it.