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ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (1/24/2009 8:06:30 PM)

I doubt that I would remarry my ex however I would stay on good terms with the ex I would forgive and ask forgiveness.

DCM



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (1/27/2009 7:16:57 PM)

It's a matter of opinion if remarrying your ex is a good thing or a bad thing.The choice is yours to make however you should really think it over first.

CJHD



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (1/28/2009 5:37:22 PM)

Remarrying the ex seems to be becoming quite commonplace these days.I wish I knew why that is.

TG



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (1/31/2009 8:19:20 PM)

Are people remarrying the ex because they're afraid that nobody else will want them and they'll end up alone or is there some other reason?

HDS



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/1/2009 8:21:45 AM)

I wonder if people are trying to prove something by remarrying the ex.

VEG



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/5/2009 7:14:09 PM)

Why would anyone want to remarry the ex?

GDW



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/6/2009 5:50:17 AM)

When you love someone so much, it's hard too breath. Circumstances come up - and both people change, sometimes growing together but because of communication, growing away. Anger, depression, lack of money, one goes to chuch the other doesnt, one wants conselling, the other doesn't. All these plus military deployment. When you lose focus on God and concentrate on yourself;. your marriage begins to fall. One person will try to keep it together and the other doesn't know how to fix it. Divorced was filed. 7 years later, Christ being the center, the wife realizes her mistakes and wants to remarry him. Its undescribable how the connection just kept us together. Our marriage will never be perfect, but whatever we lack, the Lord will equip us with. He will never leave us and will move mountains for this wonderful blessings.

Movie



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/7/2009 8:58:05 AM)

Remarrying the ex seems to be the thing to do it's like some sort of trend.

YLMTO



fiery -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/9/2009 7:34:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ArticlePost

Remarrying the ex seems to be the thing to do it's like some sort of trend.

YLMTO


Sorry, I don't know what YLMTO means. Could you explain that please? Thanks!



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/10/2009 9:31:36 AM)

I would remarry my ex in a heartbeat. Although we divorced many years ago, I have never stopped loving her. We've both remarried and had children with our current spouses, so it's unlikely to ever happen, but who knows what the future holds?

Markham



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/10/2009 6:33:10 PM)

It stands for you live more then once which refers to reincarnation.Veg is short for Vegetarian and Vegan.

Veg.



gia.master08 -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/11/2009 9:04:26 AM)

No I may never, I'd think about it. Why did I divorce in the first place? But for people who want to go for it I do not have any problem - because the great thing about human nature is that there is always the capacity to forgive and forget, to let bygones be bygones, and to start anew.



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/13/2009 7:20:47 AM)

Remarrying the ex has both success and failure I suggest that before you decide to remarry the ex really think it through.

DW



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/15/2009 7:29:17 PM)

People who are considering remarrying their ex-spouses should ask themselves this question. Would their ex-spouses even want to remarry them?

LA



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/22/2009 1:18:51 AM)

I will definately remarry my ex spouse. We both regret the time lost without each other. We met at the age of 11, he told me he fell in love with me the first time he saw me. We first dated at 17, we married at 22 (funny how all our friends knew we would marry before we did). We divorced at 37, at 42 we got back together (we never stopped loving on another, although we both were with someone else for a few years. We will remarry this summer at 44 (we gave ourselves 2 years to be certain of our decision). When substance absue is in the equation people do horrible things to one another (not just the abuser but the enabler as well), but if the addiction can be overcome and you can "truly" forgive each other and move on, it will work, as long as the love and respect for one another is still strong. Most people never get to experience a love like ours and most people can not forgive the past, I thank the Lord for giving us each other and giving us the strenth to overcome and the capability truly forgive ourselves for the bad times. We are happy again and will love each other - good times and bad, just as we are - TOGETHER.

YC



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (2/28/2009 6:03:23 PM)

I think that there will eventually be a very big drop in the number of people remarrying the ex.

CJHD



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (3/9/2009 3:48:34 PM)

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one recosidering to re-marry the ex. The first time I layed eyes on myex he was about 17 and so was I.My sister-in-law at the time and their friends were decorating for prom...Then, there he went walking by with a friend...and I remeber asking myself...what am I doing married? Time went by and I became pregnant with my second child. After my son turned six months old my second husband cheated on me and it devestated me I vowed never to have another child with him,but we stayed together and tried to work things out.I started joining him in alcohol abuse and parties every weekend...to no end.Both my son and my daughter from a previous marriage at the age of 15 suffered the consequences of our alcohol abuse.During these times I became involved with my current ex.We had an affair for 5 yrs on and off not everyday just when he was in town and sometinmes it was just to talk and catch up. I felt guilty so I came clean with the husband and we tried to work it out.we both decided to take a bible study and become better parents and mates to each other. We had another son and things were good my husband had become everything I wanted.The bible helped a lot I was faithful to ex #2 for four years. when my kids all attended school Although my #2 ex and i didn't fight or have lots of problems.i felt so lonely i would wake up with my current ex on my mind daily...i would go to my children's rooom and cry till I convienced myself that I had done the right thing to stay married.Thenone night I was getting off my car at my work's parking lot...and there went the man I love and desired for four years... and at that moment he drove around and drove up by my car...I begged him to leave and he wouldn't I was so scared I would make a mistake.i told him we could meet and talk that if he ever...loved me it was now or never. Coisedently that nigh tcenus was low and they asked for a volunteer to go home.It was me! Anyway, Long story short...we married in 2000 split up a few times just to end up together, divorced in may 08.Alcohol abuse and lack of communication played a big part in our divorce. We have both tried to move on and can't seem to stay away from each...We don't have kids together but we've both chaired in raising my three and his one. We love our kids and they have all been hurt by our problems. He has taken the Love dare...from the movie FIREPROOF, which is like a 360 for him. We are taking it one day at a time...All Iknow is that i have never loved him like any other person ever in my life and in 10 yrs. i know i will feel the same and so will he.You all do the same and I wish all of you the best.

CM



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (3/9/2009 4:00:18 PM)

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one recosidering to re-marry the ex. The first time I layed eyes on myex he was about 17 and so was I.My sister-in-law at the time and their friends were decorating for prom...Then, there he went walking by with a friend...and I remeber asking myself...what am I doing married? Time went by and I became pregnant with my second child. After my son turned six months old my second husband cheated on me and it devestated me I vowed never to have another child with him,but we stayed together and tried to work things out.I started joining him in alcohol abuse and parties every weekend...to no end.Both my son and my daughter from a previous marriage at the age of 15 suffered the consequences of our alcohol abuse.During these times I became involved with my current ex.We had an affair for 5 yrs on and off not everyday just when he was in town and sometinmes it was just to talk and catch up. I felt guilty so I came clean with the husband and we tried to work it out.we both decided to take a bible study and become better parents and mates to each other. We had another son and things were good my husband had become everything I wanted.The bible helped a lot I was faithful to ex #2 for four years. when my kids all attended school Although my #2 ex and i didn't fight or have lots of problems.i felt so lonely i would wake up with my current ex on my mind daily...i would go to my children's rooom and cry till I convienced myself that I had done the right thing to stay married.Thenone night I was getting off my car at my work's parking lot...and there went the man I love and desired for four years... and at that moment he drove around and drove up by my car...I begged him to leave and he wouldn't I was so scared I would make a mistake.i told him we could meet and talk that if he ever...loved me it was now or never. Coisedently that nigh tcenus was low and they asked for a volunteer to go home.It was me! Anyway, Long story short...we married in 2000 split up a few times just to end up together, divorced in may 08.Alcohol abuse and lack of communication played a big part in our divorce. We have both tried to move on and can't seem to stay away from each...We don't have kids together but we've both chaired in raising my three and his one. We love our kids and they have all been hurt by our problems. He has taken the Love dare...from the movie FIREPROOF, which is like a 360 for him. We are taking it one day at a time...All Iknow is that i have never loved him like any other person ever in my life and in 10 yrs. i know i will feel the same and so will he.You all do the same and I wish all of you the best.

CM



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (3/10/2009 4:07:34 PM)

I would if it was true that both were in love. Ive learned life is to short not to be with the person you truly love.

A



ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (3/11/2009 3:40:31 PM)

Remarrying your ex is your choice however I strongly suggest you really think it over first.

AI



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