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ArticlePost -> RE: Would You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? (1/1/2012 3:53:45 AM)
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My wife and I got married in our early 20's. I will admit I wasn't ready. She loved me a lot and I loved her. I felt that she pushed the relationship more than I did until I gave in with a ring. We have 2 beautiful children and had what I considered was a great life. I was a stupid man and thought being successful in my professional life was enough. It wasn't. Long story short, I neglected her emotionally and she snapped and left me. She loved me and I never recognized the signals, her soft cries of frustration. We went through a brutal and expensive divorce. It took 2 years. All the while she left the door open for me. We would continue to get into terrible fights, but she would return to tell me she loved me. She would break down. I was too stubborn and bitter for her leaving in the first place that I didn't want to acknowledge her feelings. We have both had other unfulfilling relationships since our split. Recently, we spent some time together. I have realized the error of my ways. I now know how dedicated and loving she was and how stupid I was not to appreciate her the same. I put very little work into the marriage and the divorce was the final result. I don't necessarily believe in the spiritual "soulmate", but if I have one, she was it. We have recently been spending a lot of time together. I have expressed my remorse for neglecting our relationship. I didn't know any other way, but I want to change. She has expressed that she wants me back and I want her back. We are taking it slow and hoping for the best. We made one heck of a mess, but have used the experience to grow and become better people. I want to rededicate myself to her and be the man she deserves. Our divorce was so painful and terrible. I felt like I wanted to die at times. I now believe it was the only way for me change and grow as a person. I hope we can make it work this time.
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