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Stuck. - 9/16/2011 3:17:01 PM
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HannyBoo
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You've probably heard this just about a bazillion times. I'm stuck and I can't figure out what to do. I'm just looking for some friendly advice.
About three years ago I met a guy (presently he is my best friend) and he is the same age as me. We are a few months apart but we are crazy about each other. I don't talk to him as much now, because I've gotten busy with school and what-not, but He was my best friend before we fell in love, so he knows everything, and he's my main go-to guy for advice. But since my problem involves him, I can't really get the sincere advice that I want. His name is Jimmy. He would say "Listen to your heart, it never steers you wrong."
This year, I met a guy at my Church Organized Camp in Oakhurst, California. We are also the same age and he is the sweetest guy (save my best friend) that I have ever met. I currently have a boyfriend, but he continues to love me, and he showers me with so many compliments daily. He says that his heart belongs to only me, and that he will wait until I'm all his. He says he doesn't love anyone but me, and that it hurts to not see each other, but he says I'm worth it. His name is Joseph. He would say "Choose the one you love the most."
My boyfriend (We've been together for two weeks today) says he loves me. He continues to tell me that what happened in the past should stay in the past and that I should just forget about the other two guys. I've told him that I feel guilty for not sticking with Joseph, but he says that I couldn't have stopped it. I told him that I could, but I think he just wants me as his girlfriend to have sex. I'm only 14 years old and I've told him a million times that I'm definitely not ready for it, but he continues to urge me into it. I'm thinking about breaking up with him, but he makes me feel guilty by saying that I'm the first girl to make him feel so in love. He says that I'm different and that I shouldn't change. But at the same time, I think the only reason that I'm with him still is because he reminds me of my ex-boyfriend and best friend, Jimmy. His name is Pedro. He would say "Just forget about it. Smile."
The responses I might get would say "Dump the third one. If he doesn't respect that you don't want to have sex, or that you need him to slow down so that you can think, then he doesn't deserve you." and I feel the same way, but if I dump him, I'll feel like I'm dumping my best friend because they are so similar. Please help. I don't really have anywhere else to turn.
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